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Great article mario.. I’v got this huge problem of dealing with my gfs past. She used to love this guy a lot, her first love, but he later on said that it was just to ‘pass the time’. She was really hurt and couldn’t forget him for over a year. Im her new guy and i had this convo with her about her past and whenever she tells me about the good things she did with that guy, she smiles and laughs. She was even suicidal when he said he didnt love her. Mario, it hurts me so much to know that she had amazing time with her ex that she couldnt forget. She now says that she loves me more. Fr some reason, i just wanna know if she really does love me more than him. I’v done a lot more for her than her ex did. It might be awkward, but i wanna know if she will miss me nd still love me after a breakup, will she still be suicidal. I just want her to forget bout her past and just love me like crazy:(
Oh and the ex is a friend of mine. Hurts a lot more right mario?

Mario October 24, 2011 at 12:08 pm
Hi Dom – well, there’s only one way to go: make your relationship BETTER than the one she had with him. Do new stuff she has never done before, improve on what she did with him, etc. Obviously it’s sad, but it’s in a way normal that your couple has had past experiences as well. And it doesn’t make much sense if you worry that much about how she will be after a breakup. Focus on the now – and if she’s suicidal, you should start thinking whether you it’s the right girl for you! It’s not a joke if a girl is like that – might bring you lots of problems.

Hope this helps!

Each one of you is special. We are all different and none of us will be attractive to women in the same way. Some are great dancers, others have traveled a lot and others may be great cooks. Which is YOUR skill?

This really matters because that skill you have will make a certain place, a bar or a mall, for instance, better for your game. So, as I explained with the best movies before, the best place to go and pick up is subjective. There will be a place that you and just you will be the most attracting man and some others where you would be the less interesting. The idea here is to get to know which is the place you should go to and to focus picking up there.

For example, if you a great dancer, would you go and pick up girls in the park? You certainly could, but your success rate would never approach that of you in a club or dance floor. Which aspect of your personality makes you the most attractive? For my case, I believe that I can charm the girls I want when I speak about culture and life stories. Not only I’m a guy they could spend a great time with but I’m also the best guy they could go and speak about culture with.

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